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I’m Crissy

City girl married to a country boy and perfectly imperfect mom and wife.

Whether it’s attending the school’s PTA meeting, going fishing, or having an impromptu kitchen dance session, I believe it’s essential to stay a dedicated, fun, and fashionable mom. Here I share my experiences keeping up with the current trends, testing out the latest tech, renovating our forever home, and raising 3 kids without a manual. You can often find me cheering from the sidelines, focusing on the bright side, counting my blessings, and striving to raise well rounded kids who will make the world a better place!

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While everyone was bbq-ing, we spent our Memorial Day weekend at a baseball tournament. It was actually quite the train wreck- my younger guy got the stomach bug, @jkbeamer & I had to divide and conqueror with 1 vehicle, and some of the teams we faced pooled from tens of thousands (and more) of kids.

I was 1 of only 2 moms from our organization with two players in this tournament. But after a quick Urgent Care trip and a regroup, my little guy smoked his double header (still not feeling 100%), ending the tourney with a W at Lasorda Park under the lights. My older guy played a phenomenal bracket ending with a winning record (after losing everything last year), taking the mound in the final game, & having more fun than he’s had in a long time.

If you aren’t a sports family, you can’t wrap your head around it. Giving up an entire weekend, sitting in the heat at a ball field for hours, & going through money like it’s water. But these years will only last so long and there is no where I would rather be than with our baseball family watching our kids do what they love!

#baseball #sports #youthsports #tournament #baseballtournament #baseballheaven #pitcher #catcher #batter #family #memories #citygirlcountryboy

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While everyone was bbq-ing, we spent our Memorial Day weekend at a baseball tournament. It was actually quite the train wreck- my younger guy got the stomach bug, @jkbeamer & I had to divide and conqueror with 1 vehicle, and some of the teams we faced pooled from tens of thousands (and more) of kids.

I was 1 of only 2 moms from our organization with two players in this tournament. But after a quick Urgent Care trip and a regroup, my little guy smoked his double header (still not feeling 100%), ending the tourney with a W at Lasorda Park under the lights. My older guy played a phenomenal bracket ending with a winning record (after losing everything last year), taking the mound in the final game, & having more fun than he’s had in a long time.

If you aren’t a sports family, you can’t wrap your head around it. Giving up an entire weekend, sitting in the heat at a ball field for hours, & going through money like it’s water. But these years will only last so long and there is no where I would rather be than with our baseball family watching our kids do what they love!

#baseball #sports #youthsports #tournament #baseballtournament #baseballheaven #pitcher #catcher #batter #family #memories #citygirlcountryboy

Such a powerful day at the 75th Annual Israel Day Parade in #NYC on Sunday! The community coming together in support of one another and the amazing stories told by the survivors will forever leave an imprint on my heart.

If you’ve never been to this event, I strongly suggest adding to your calendar for next year! Bonus was being able to hang out with a group of amazing women @fountainof30 @victoriasophianyc @melissaschapman @thatrelatablejew @geaninecilenti @missstephanieb @rachelferrucci

#IsraelDayParade #holocaustsurvivors #nycparade #learnhistory #neveragain #learnwithme #holocausthistory #holocaustrembrance #jewishculture #jewishhistory

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Such a powerful day at the 75th Annual Israel Day Parade in #NYC on Sunday! The community coming together in support of one another and the amazing stories told by the survivors will forever leave an imprint on my heart.

If you’ve never been to this event, I strongly suggest adding to your calendar for next year! Bonus was being able to hang out with a group of amazing women @fountainof30 @victoriasophianyc @melissaschapman @thatrelatablejew @geaninecilenti @missstephanieb @rachelferrucci

#IsraelDayParade #holocaustsurvivors #nycparade #learnhistory #neveragain #learnwithme #holocausthistory #holocaustrembrance #jewishculture #jewishhistory

The end of the year is always filled with events at school. I was totally blown away by our girl in the role of Jack from Jack and the Beanstalk. She took her role very seriously, rehearsing her lines and making sure she didn’t need to use her script. The entire class did such a fabulous job, it was a great way to close out first grade!

#love #class #endofyear #endofschoyear #summer #play #jackandthebeanstalk #littleredridinghood #theatre #plays #school

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The end of the year is always filled with events at school. I was totally blown away by our girl in the role of Jack from Jack and the Beanstalk. She took her role very seriously, rehearsing her lines and making sure she didn’t need to use her script. The entire class did such a fabulous job, it was a great way to close out first grade!

#love #class #endofyear #endofschoyear #summer #play #jackandthebeanstalk #littleredridinghood #theatre #plays #school

Today, I had the privilege to attend the Israel Day Parade in #NYC with the most amazing group of individuals who happen to be Holocaust Survivors. I heard their stories, and while listening to the details of the unfathomable, I watched faces full of pride and strength along with @melissaschapman @thatrelatablejew @victoriasophianyc @missstephanieb @fountainof30 @geaninecilenti & @rachelferrucci

Holocaust survivors didn’t just survive the Holocaust, they built beautiful lives and created families who wouldn’t be with us today if they didn’t survive.

I met the incredible @samisteigmannspeaks, danced through the streets with sweet Khana (Anna), and witnessed an amazing community come together to celebrate the 75th Israel Day Parade. So grateful to share this day with an amazing group of people! As a promise to these survivors, I will continue to share their stories and #pledgetoremember .. I ask that you do too💙 #WeAreHere

#IsraelDayParade #holocaustsurvivors #nycparade #learnhistory #neveragain #learnwithme #holocausthistory #holocaustrembrance #jewishculture #jewishhistory

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Today, I had the privilege to attend the Israel Day Parade in #NYC with the most amazing group of individuals who happen to be Holocaust Survivors. I heard their stories, and while listening to the details of the unfathomable, I watched faces full of pride and strength along with @melissaschapman @thatrelatablejew @victoriasophianyc @missstephanieb @fountainof30 @geaninecilenti & @rachelferrucci

Holocaust survivors didn’t just survive the Holocaust, they built beautiful lives and created families who wouldn’t be with us today if they didn’t survive.

I met the incredible @samisteigmannspeaks, danced through the streets with sweet Khana (Anna), and witnessed an amazing community come together to celebrate the 75th Israel Day Parade. So grateful to share this day with an amazing group of people! As a promise to these survivors, I will continue to share their stories and #pledgetoremember .. I ask that you do too💙 #WeAreHere

#IsraelDayParade #holocaustsurvivors #nycparade #learnhistory #neveragain #learnwithme #holocausthistory #holocaustrembrance #jewishculture #jewishhistory

I couldn’t resist @chubbies his and hers matching swim. These Classic Swim Trunks have been @jkbeamer favorite swimsuit thus far this season. I’m obsessed with my Floral Reef matching coverup because it compliments so many swim suit styles! These were just two of our many island life pieces, check my stories & click the Link in Bio to see all of the must-have pieces!

#swim #swimmingtrunks #beach #pool #summer #sun #hisandhers #love #citygirlcountyboy #chubbiesshorts #discoverunder30k

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I couldn’t resist @chubbies his and hers matching swim. These Classic Swim Trunks have been @jkbeamer favorite swimsuit thus far this season. I’m obsessed with my Floral Reef matching coverup because it compliments so many swim suit styles! These were just two of our many island life pieces, check my stories & click the Link in Bio to see all of the must-have pieces!

#swim #swimmingtrunks #beach #pool #summer #sun #hisandhers #love #citygirlcountyboy #chubbiesshorts #discoverunder30k

You know I have major anxiety when it comes to getting my hair done. For the first 23 years of my life, my stylist-mom did my hair, then once she stopped my stylist sister-in-law took over, whenever we visited. It’s a challenge having a long distance stylist, so I’ve been on the hunt for the last decade.

Last week I went to see @joffrey_jara at @1eleven_salon and he completely blew my mind (and hair)! There’s a reason why he’s called #theblondeexpert! If you are looking for a NYC quality salon locally, you need to make your appointment NOW! Whether you want to freshen up a #summerblonde or need an all together change. He will work his magic!

#salon #ctsalon #hair #blonde #hairstylist #love #cthair #connecticuthairstylist #highlights #transformation #beauty #hairtransformation #influencer #ctblogger #discoverunder30k #citygirlcountryboy

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You know I have major anxiety when it comes to getting my hair done. For the first 23 years of my life, my stylist-mom did my hair, then once she stopped my stylist sister-in-law took over, whenever we visited. It’s a challenge having a long distance stylist, so I’ve been on the hunt for the last decade.

Last week I went to see @joffrey_jara at @1eleven_salon and he completely blew my mind (and hair)! There’s a reason why he’s called #theblondeexpert! If you are looking for a NYC quality salon locally, you need to make your appointment NOW! Whether you want to freshen up a #summerblonde or need an all together change. He will work his magic!

#salon #ctsalon #hair #blonde #hairstylist #love #cthair #connecticuthairstylist #highlights #transformation #beauty #hairtransformation #influencer #ctblogger #discoverunder30k #citygirlcountryboy

This captures my feelings on the delayed warm weather. Heading into the kick off of summer & Memorial Day with my self care wish list!
✔️spa pedicure
✔️fresh hair
✔️ lashes
✔️ lips
✔️ gains
✔️ brows
✔️upgraded summer styles

What are some self care things you do to get ready for the summer season?

#pedicure #hair #summer #style #fashion #selfcare #citygirlcountryboy #discoverunder30k

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This captures my feelings on the delayed warm weather. Heading into the kick off of summer & Memorial Day with my self care wish list!
✔️spa pedicure
✔️fresh hair
✔️ lashes
✔️ lips
✔️ gains
✔️ brows
✔️upgraded summer styles

What are some self care things you do to get ready for the summer season?

#pedicure #hair #summer #style #fashion #selfcare #citygirlcountryboy #discoverunder30k

Let’s talk motivation and accountability. I wanted an excuse to wear this @fab_forever_yoga_lifestyle crop top so I dragged myself to my personal training session. My bestie & trainer @katygomes_fitness kicked my butt & listened to me whine the entire time.

My girlfriends & I have an accountability group which definitely pushes me to get my workout in!

Find yourself women who push you to be better, listen to you whine, and love every step of your work in progress!

Use code SALTY15 for 15% off your order at @fab_forever_yoga_lifestyle !!

#workout #healthy #accountability #motivation #fitness #healthylife #citygirlcountryboy #ctinfluencer #style #gymvibes

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Let’s talk motivation and accountability. I wanted an excuse to wear this @fab_forever_yoga_lifestyle crop top so I dragged myself to my personal training session. My bestie & trainer @katygomes_fitness kicked my butt & listened to me whine the entire time.

My girlfriends & I have an accountability group which definitely pushes me to get my workout in!

Find yourself women who push you to be better, listen to you whine, and love every step of your work in progress!

Use code SALTY15 for 15% off your order at @fab_forever_yoga_lifestyle !!

#workout #healthy #accountability #motivation #fitness #healthylife #citygirlcountryboy #ctinfluencer #style #gymvibes

So excited to start a garden this year with my girl!! We were able to get our entire mini garden set up at @osjoblot from a seed starting greenhouse kit to gloves and a variety of seeds! Check out my stories to see what we’re planning to grow this year!! #osjlsummer #JobLotFinds #sponsored

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So excited to start a garden this year with my girl!! We were able to get our entire mini garden set up at @osjoblot from a seed starting greenhouse kit to gloves and a variety of seeds! Check out my stories to see what we’re planning to grow this year!! #osjlsummer #JobLotFinds #sponsored

I’ve become obsessed with skin care & combating all of my sungoddess years. Eye masks are literally the perfect cheat sheet to working on your skin while still hitting the grind!

If you checked out my Beauty Guide for Valentine’s Day, you know I’m an avid @graceandstella user! I pop these under eye masks on EVERYDAY while I’m getting the kids ready. They cool to reduce puffiness & dark circles while moisturizing! It’s literally the best way to kick off my day!

#skincare #skincareroutine #partner #graceandstella #influencer #discoverunder30k #citygirlcountryboy #fridayvibes

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I’ve become obsessed with skin care & combating all of my sungoddess years. Eye masks are literally the perfect cheat sheet to working on your skin while still hitting the grind!

If you checked out my Beauty Guide for Valentine’s Day, you know I’m an avid @graceandstella user! I pop these under eye masks on EVERYDAY while I’m getting the kids ready. They cool to reduce puffiness & dark circles while moisturizing! It’s literally the best way to kick off my day!

#skincare #skincareroutine #partner #graceandstella #influencer #discoverunder30k #citygirlcountryboy #fridayvibes

I love having a fresh bouquet of flowers in the house, I just feel like it elevates the space and bring a fresh feel! When I had the chance to try @bouquetbox I couldn’t wait! These expert-designed arrangements come with step by step instructions that allow you to make gorgeous arrangements that would cost hundreds from a local florist. Check out my beautiful Mother’s Day bouquet!

#partner #floral #flowers #bouquetofflowers #bouquetbox

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I love having a fresh bouquet of flowers in the house, I just feel like it elevates the space and bring a fresh feel! When I had the chance to try @bouquetbox I couldn’t wait! These expert-designed arrangements come with step by step instructions that allow you to make gorgeous arrangements that would cost hundreds from a local florist. Check out my beautiful Mother’s Day bouquet!

#partner #floral #flowers #bouquetofflowers #bouquetbox

Beyond blessed I’m able to celebrate Mother’s Day thanks to these three. It doesn’t get any better than kicking off the morning with fresh fruit and a note for breakfast in bed, then watching one of my favorite guys play like a beast on the field. Happy Mother’s Day to the people killing this parenting gig on most days! 👏

#happymothersday #celebrate #mothersday

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